How social media is affecting the porn industry
Abella Anderson
Social media has obviously affected how people interact with each other.
For better or for worse things are different now.
There is one positive change though and interestingly enough it’s for pornstars.
As the Sex.com Blog points out:
“…social media has made expressing yourself in 140 characters (Twitter) or putting a shitty filter over a shitty picture of some shitty food (Instagram) a lot easier. Social media has also given personalities to pornstars and a way to interact with their fans that wasn’t there before.
Pre-social media, the only things we knew about your favorite pornstar was what she would say in interviews or the beginning of a porn scene, which isn’t an accurate depiction of their personality. Now the connection between fan and pornstar is there, which is great because girls can use social media to accurately market themselves. I don’t know about you but I think knowing details about a certain pornstar helps me decide which pornstars I like. Without these details, there are so many babes coming in and out of the industry that it would be impossible to keep track of who I liked and who I didn’t.
Take for example Abella Anderson liking the Miami Heat. Even though I hate the Miami Heat, the fact that Abella Anderson is a passionate basketball fan makes me more attracted to her.
However, with this power to communicate their personalities there is also the responsibility to let them know when it’s over.”
That’s one way of looking at it.
Couple Seeking Woman: The Needle in the Haystack
Venice Bloggs and Ryan Bloggs are a husband and wife team that write one of the best sex blogs on the internet: FuckBlogging.com.
Venice Bloggs was asked by The Sex.com Blog if she would be willing to do a guest post for them and she was nice enough to oblige. So please enjoy her take on the complications of finding a woman for a happily married threesome.
On our blog, I’ve made it very clear that I was ready and willing to lose my “girlginity,” which basically means being with a woman sexually. But that doesn’t mean that because I’ve had a sexual awakening I’m ready to pounce on anything with a pair of hot tits and a pussy, and it certainly doesn’t mean I get a free pass to fuck any woman I want. There’s a process, if you will, in seeking a woman who we will be allowing into our lives. This complicated process would be akin to finding the proverbial needle in a haystack.
By putting our business out there for the world to read and judge us by, I realize that I might be scaring off potential “partners,” but conversely, it will also allow me to broadcast my requirements, my prerequisites, and my standards – something everyone should do with every sexual partner in order to get as close to exactly what they want. Be picky, don’t settle.
I won’t be jumping into anything because I have so much to consider. I’m not single; I’ve found my soul mate. But now, I’m on a mission to find my “holemate,” so to speak. I’m not looking for a female version of my man or a second wife for him. For a relationship like mine and Ryan’s, our ideal triad would be filled by a female agreeable to a no-strings-attached situation, which should not be misconstrued as her constant availability for a booty call. In fact, that is the exact opposite of what I want. I’m interested in finding a friend, a good friend, one who I can talk to and understand my marriage and be open with my limitations.
Ryan has been a loyal man to me, so rewarding him by adding a female to our sex life while also exploring my bi-curious side would serve us both. And I would absolutely love to spoil my man in a safe, reciprocated way. We’re a territorial couple, but there are exceptions. Ryan would allow me and her to be 100% intimate with each other in any way. However, I’d want Ryan to be with me. This is where things get complicated, as I do not want Ryan to be a creeper in the corner.
Premature Ejaculation and What Women Want
I used to suffer from premature ejaculation.
Over time I’ve gotten over it but it’s really humiliating and emasculating.
I tried every fucking premature ejaculation gimmick in the world and nothing worked. I only became more discouraged and self-conscious.
I wish someone had show me this when I was struggling:
Promescent Penis Numbing Spray Revisited
C Dusty tried out a new penis numbing spray that’s supposed to cure premature ejaculation and he tore it a new one.
My favorite part:
“…I asked my fly mamacita if I did suffer from premature ejaculation, would she prefer that I numb my penis on a regular basis or ejaculate prematurely?
Being the cool chick that she is, my fly mamacita told me, “I’d rather have sex that lasted less than a minute than do whatever we just did.'”
Nice. More men need to know.
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